About Me
I own a successful real estate business, spend winters skiing, summers in the Colorado mountains, love hiking with my dog Tater, cooking dinner or dining out with friends, traveling, going to see live music and being 'Mimi' to my grandkids in Maine.
I am about 4 1/2 years post divorce and still single and still looking for love. I was married for 27 years (together for 30) and we have one daughter together. Truth be told...that was my 2nd marriage (gasp!). My first marriage was straight out of college and lasted one year. (I like to refer to that as my "starter" marriage and it didn't really count, right?!).
30 years is a big chunk of my life (basically HALF) and probably was the hardest thing I've ever gone through, (next to losing my Dad to a heart attack when I was 17 years old); However....I am so much better off now and so much happier and I have zero regrets!
Since my divorce in April 2022, I've had one LTR (2+ years), but it ultimately ended because there were things about him I couldn't fix (didn't want to) and couldn't live with forever. I have dated a few other people but it never turned into anything serious. 
I'm an empty nester and LOVING IT. I have one grown daughter who lives in Maine where she has started a nest of her own. I have two beautiful grandbabies! #dontcallmegrandma My BF called me #GILF and I absolutely love that nickname!
I have done a lot of work on my self (therapy), have done plenty soul searching, and have gotten to know myself really well these last few years.
I know what I really want and what I don't want.
I know who I am, and frankly, I think I'm pretty fucking awesome! Hopefully you do too!
I've learned that I LOVE being IN LOVE and being in a partnership. I love having a companion. Someone to do "all the things" with -- fun stuff like skiing or hiking & traveling, or even the regular things like cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning the house or driving home from a colonoscopy! LMAO. (I had a colonoscopy when I was separated and it was AWKWARD having to ask a girlfriend give me a ride!)
I want a best friend. I want someone to kiss me goodnight. I want INTIMACY. (Not just sex).
- Emotional intimacy – feeling safe enough to be vulnerable, sharing fears, dreams, insecurities, and knowing the other person genuinely cares.
- Physical intimacy – holding hands, long hugs, cuddling on the couch, kissing, touching each other affectionately.
- Intellectual intimacy – having conversations that go beyond "How was your day?" Discussing ideas, life, politics, books, dreams, or laughing about ridiculous things together.
- Everyday intimacy – cooking dinner together, walking the dog, making coffee for each other, inside jokes, comfortable silence, knowing someone's routines.
And, of course
- Sexual intimacy – making love, exploring each other physically, and feeling emotionally connected during sex. (And also just F#$KING is fun too!)
More About Me
I'm super independent, but that doesn't mean I want to be alone. It means I'm looking for someone because I want them in my life, not because I need them to complete it.
I have a dark, sometimes crude, sense of humor.
I love animals, especially dogs. I will stop and say hi to strangers' dogs on the street.
I love the outdoors -- skiing in Winter (Ikon), hiking in all seasons, camping (but these days prefer more "glam" accommodations like a camper vs tent).
I love to travel (don't we all)? -- I haven't done enough traveling and have plenty of places on my bucket list. I also love road trips.
I love live music -- all types -- especially at a fun outdoor venue. Warning: I WILL dance my ass off. (If my achilles and knees are feeling up to it). My partner doesn't need to join me on the dance floor, but is okay with me dancing with whoever.
Strolling around a farmer's market or craft fair.
Reading (or listening to) a book.
Cooking -- My mom was an excellent cook and that rubbed off on me. I love to cook a delicious meal and entertain guests.
Gardening -- I don't have a vegetable garden now, but would love to have one again someday. I love digging around in my flower beds.
Family and friendships are important to me. My parents are gone, but I'm close to my two siblings. I'm the baby. Ideally, my partner has a great relationship with his family, friends and co-workers. (this says a lot about a person).
I love my career. I currently work as a real estate agent in the Boulder County / North Denver metro area. I've been doing this for 18+ years. I love the flexible schedule and the ability to work remotely (generally).
What I Am Looking For in a Man
- Age: 55-65 ish
- Race / Ethnicity -- White / Caucasian is generally who I'm attracted to.
- Height -- 5'7" and up -- someone taller than me (I'm 5'6" and 140ish lbs)
- Body Type -- Average or athletic build. I'm definitely no super model but I think I'm in "okay" shape for a 59 year old grandma. Oops...I mean GILF!
- Gainfully employed (or retired).
- Eyes -- I'm a sucker for blue eyes, but I've fallen for beautiful brown or green eyes too.
- Facial Hair -- I'm generally attracted to clean shaven men, but I do find some facial hair to be sexy. I'm not really into big beards (even if they are nicely trimmed). Just not my thing.
- Politics -- No MAGA. Period. End of story. I'm fine with the regular old "conservatives" i.e. Reagan, George HW or George W Bush, McCain. What we have in office now is NOT "conservative" whatsoever. It's a fucking CULT.
Other Things I'm Looking For
Someone who is kind, emotionally available, active, vulnerable, intellectually curious, monogamous, financially stable, funny, and who wants real intimacy and a real connection. Someone who shows up when it matters.
To Sum It All Up
I've built a life I'm grateful for. I have amazing family and friends, and the best dog in the whole world. I'm independent, curious, and perfectly capable on my own—but I believe the best parts of life are even better when they're shared with someone you love. I'm not looking for someone to complete me. I'm hoping to find someone to build an extraordinary next chapter with.
Thanks for checking me out! I look forward to meeting you.
XOXO
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